Time to toss your Mr. Nice Guy routine and bring out the confident, playful, and challenging side. Here’s how you get started:
1. Be the Selector, Not the Selectee:
- Mindset Shift: See yourself as the one evaluating women, not the other way around.
- Example: Don’t hesitate to call out her flaws, “I see you’ve got a bit of a diva streak, I like it”.
2. Tease and Challenge:
- Playful Banter: Use humor to tease her lightly about her imperfections.
- Example: “Oh, you’re one of those girls who takes forever to get ready. I bet you secretly enjoy making people wait!”.
3. Set Boundaries:
- Don’t Tolerate Bad Behavior: Stand up for yourself when she tries to test you.
- Example: If she tries to dominate the conversation with complaints, “Looks like someone’s trying to throw a tantrum. Newsflash, it’s not working on me”.
4. Stop Buying Affection:
- No Gifts or Dinner Dates Too Soon: Avoid trying to buy her affection with presents and extravagant dates.
- Example: “Let’s keep it casual and fun. How about a walk in the park?”.
5. Be Unpredictable:
- Keep Her Guessing: Surprise her by being unpredictable in your actions and responses.
- Example: When she asks for something, “You’ll have to earn it first” then give it to her later when she least expects it.
6. Lead the Interaction:
- Take Control: Don’t look to her for the next move, you set the pace.
- Example: “We’re going for drinks at 8. Be ready”.
7. Mix Signals:
- Confuse Her (In a Fun Way): Give her mixed signals to keep her interest piqued.
- Example: “I think you’re cool but don’t get too comfy, you’re still on probation”.
8. Use Humor and Arrogance:
- Blend Fun with Confidence: Be funny and slightly arrogant to make interactions interesting.
- Example: “You think you’re cute, huh? Lucky for you, I have a thing for troublemakers”.
Remember, the key is to stay confident, fun, and in control.
Now go out there and show them who’s boss!
