Alright bro, you’ve had your initial chat with her and now you’re wondering how to follow up. Here’s a game plan:
Day 1: Initial Contact
- Callback Humor: Start with a callback to your previous convo. If you gave her a playful nickname, use it.
- Example: “Hey, troublemaker. That story about [insert detail] still cracks me up. You get into any more mischief since then?”
Day 2-3: Build Comfort
- Funny Story/Text: Send her a funny text or share a funny story that relates to something you discussed.
- Example: “You won’t believe what happened today, I met someone who could be your twin! 😲”
Day 4-5: Progress to Deep Conversation
- Engage Her Interests: Mention something that interests both of you.
- Example: “You mentioned loving art, there’s a cool exhibit this weekend. Maybe we’ll bump into each other there?”
Day 6-7: Set Up a Date
- Spontaneous Plans: Make your life seem fun and spontaneous.
- Example: “Hey, planning a small get-together at House of Blues tonight. Drop by if you’re free.”
Keep it fun, teasing, and light-hearted. If she flakes, don’t sweat it, just move on and keep your own plans fun and busy.
